53 years
You
may think this is the dumbest thing
you’ve
ever heard, and that’s OK,
but
each day,
if
I leave before my wife wakes up,
I
always leave her a note,
and
it always ends the same way:
“I
love you!
Have a great day!”
That
way, should anything ever happen to me,
the
last thing I’ll have every said
is
that I love her
and
wished her the hope of a great day.
*shrugs*
I
think everyone wants to be loved,
and
everyone needs a little hope.
I
doubt I’m the only one who thinks that;
although
I never met the man,
I
do believe that Robert Lee Miles Sr.
would
agree with me.
A
friend of mine found an obituary,
(actually
called a Homecoming Celebration
...I kind of like that =>),
for
Mr. Miles that was left in a rental car.
To
my way of thinking,
it
was left there for a reason.
And
reading it now, there are three really
cool
things that stand out about the man:
1)
Robert came to know the Lord at an early age
2)
His passion was singing praises for the Lord
and
3)
"his wife, Inez J. Jones Miles of 53years"
So,
he got hooked up with Jesus at a young age,
he
loved to sing to God
(apparently
"The Lord Will Provide" and
"Tangled
Up in Jesus" were his favorite hymns),
and
he managed to stay married for 53 years!
He
also lived to be 99 years old,
which
is impressive,
yet
plenty of people have done that;
the
being married for 53 years
is
the part that impresses me,
as
not many people can do that.
I’m
going to send this blog link
to
his church
(Macedonia
Missionary Baptist Church
in Hyde Park in Memphis, Tennessee);
if
any of his family or friends read this
and
know a thing or two about
Robert’s
and his wife’s secrets to
such
a long-standing marriage,
please
do enlighten us (& thank you!).
Meanwhile,
if I had to guess,
I
would guess that not a day went by
where
his wife had to wonder
whether
or not he loved her;
I’m
sure he told her all the time.
Robert,
I’m sure you’re in a better place,
reunited
with your beloved Inez;
yet
in a world where things seem fleeting,
and
commitment seems hard to come by,
thank
you, for showing us
an
example of enduring love.
Have
a great week. =)
grace, peace, and love to you,
dave